Add native self-hosted instance connection to fluxer_desktop

Trimmed monorepo checkout (fluxer_desktop + packages/voice_engine_v2 +
tools/ci) with a "Connect to a Different Server" menu item and popout
that lets the desktop app switch to any self-hosted Fluxer instance,
plus fixes for well-known discovery on single-domain self-hosted
deployments and a false-positive ERR_ABORTED on same-origin client
redirects during the switch. Defaults to chat.fluxr.chat and uses an
isolated userData directory from the official build.

fluxer_desktop/native/audio-apm/Cargo.toml

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+[package]
+name = "fluxer_audio_apm"
+version = "0.0.0"
+edition = "2024"
+license = "AGPL-3.0-or-later"
+publish = false
+
+[workspace]
+resolver = "2"
+
+[lib]
+crate-type = ["rlib"]
+
+[features]
+default = []
+real-apm = [
+    "dep:webrtc-audio-processing",
+    "dep:webrtc-audio-processing-config",
+    "webrtc-audio-processing/bundled",
+]
+
+[dependencies]
+webrtc-audio-processing = {version = "2.1", optional = true}
+webrtc-audio-processing-config = {version = "2.1", optional = true}
+
+[dev-dependencies]